Thank you so much for always providing your hospitality and love whether I am in Upper Darby, Arizona, New York or even India!
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Happy Birthday Grandmom!
Thank you so much for always providing your hospitality and love whether I am in Upper Darby, Arizona, New York or even India!
Monday, July 13, 2009
Amristsar!
I realized just how much I have learned when Maria, Kylie and I were watching Slumdog Millionaire after we returned from Amritsar in the afternoon. I felt so cool knowing some of the Hindi! And for those of you who live and breathe that movie, remember back to the beginning when the two boys' mother dies due to a mob of people coming in and killing almost everyone. During this part the two boys see a young child painted blue in a sort-of dream like state, which the Millionaire host lets us know is Ram (a Hindu god), when he asks "What is Ram holding in his right hand?" Before I didn't even question why the boys saw a child version of Ram in the first place as they were running for their lives.
Beautiful, no? And it is entirely painted in gold! The temple sits at the center of a huge lake (man-made) and is surrounded by a rectangular marble pathway with guest rooms on the sides and an entire cafeteria. The best part is, you can sleep and eat for free! Since so many people travel here, it makes sense. But its not just the Golden Temple that is so hospitable, this is true for all Sikh temples. Although we didn't get a chance to, you can go to the cafeteria and get your basic chapatti and some sort of bean-ish food with it. As much as you want.
Just me!
Oh and I forgot to mention, you do have to cover your head - both guys and girls. In the lake surrounding the temple men can also bathe. So you will often see men undressing (they leave some sort of long underwear on) and bathing in the water. So the women have to bathe in a separate area - which seemed a bit small to me from the outside although we didn't go in... again, not sure why not haha. Here are the women:
So after walking around for a bit, barefoot of course, we waited for 45 minutes in the long line to enter the temple. We gave about 10 rupees donation each (you give as you can) and we received a banana leaf full of this brown stuff. Then once you make it to the front of the line and you can enter the temple, the men there take half of the brown food as an offering to God. Then you get to eat the rest! It was terribly greasy but so delicious and sweet. So we ate that and walked around the temple which had similar marble and stone designs as the Taj Mahal. Oh and the gold.
Outside the temple you could see all the carp in the water as well. They were the most beautful orange fish.
And on our way out to get our shoes, Allie and Maria were stopped by a family who wanted their picture with them. I wanted to show this because this happened about 234872047 times on this trip. It's quite funny actually when Kylie is in a bad mood because when men ask her for a picture they really wish they hadn't. But for the most part, we say yes to women and families, and absolutely no to any men. As for the families, we're not sure whether our faces will end up on the mantle in a frame or just in a family album. Mom with the Golden Temple, Mom with the white people, Mom with the kids... just normal.
So after that we went to the Jallianwala Bagh memorial. Basically when India was fighting for independence, the British were often unruly with their response. So a group of Indians in Amritsar were holding a peaceful protest, and the British general ordered in troops to stop them, and the troops just fired at the people who had no way to defend themselves. So many died on the spot and many died trying to save themselves by jumping into a huge well (all of these people died as well). So they made the area a beautiful park and you can see the well which is still there. So we spent some time in the park and layed in the grass and read a bit.
Then at about 4PM we got a rickshaw driver to take us to the border closing ceremony. This is a huge ceremony that happens every night at around 5:30 or 6, where the border closes between India and Pakistan. That's right, I was about 100 meters away from Pakistan!
So the entire place is packed and filled with screaming Indians who are brimming with nationalism. Then there are also men or should i say guards, who a dressed in a bizarre and hilarious costume.
So the ceremony begins with a man screaming into a microphone "HINDUSTAN!" (ie, India) and then the crowd responds with something in Hindu. I was cheering it with them, but Im still not sure what I was saying - oh well. And from where we were sitting you could see a huge crowd on the Pakistan side as well doing the same thing. Although Im pretty sure India had more people and was much louder.
Then they have countless numbers of people alternate running to the gate at the border and back with two Indian flags. After that, they played about 8 upbeat songs (which im sure were patriotic) and there was a huge dance party on the street with about 50-100 people. Man those Indians can dance - and they are good!!
Then the actual ceremony began. A picture would not do it justice. First, one of the men in "uniform" screams into a microphone for what seems like an entire minute without taking a breath. Amazing. This happens a few times. Then simultaneously, different Indian men stamp up to the gate while Pakistan's men do the same (similarly dressed in an absurd costume). This stamping march includes high kicks and screaming. Then they thrust the gates open, stamp some more, shake hands, and throw the gates closed. This happens a few times. Each side stamps louder and with more energy each time to show how strong they are. So bizarre but incredibly entertaining.
Its a little difficult to see, but you get the picture. The night was a little annoying because we had a stalker who wouldnt leave us alone, and about a crowd of 20 guys staring at us. Thankfully, one of the Sikh guards working there yelled at them to get away from us at one point, although new ones came back.
After about 3 hours of sleep, we were kicked and woken up with water splashed on us. They needed to clean the floors. We could have found a new place and slept some more, but we decided just to head for the train station to wait a bit before our 5:30AM train. Overall, I would say the trip was a success.I went to Nepal and somehow I lived...
This is us in our Indian squatting pose!
Alvin always looked off into the distance in every picture...
So then the next morning we went to our FLIGHT to Kathmandu. We were previously going to bus it there as well but I would rather cut off my toe than do that again. They could have charged me $300 and I would have agreed. Good thing they didn't..
This is our plane! We actually got to step only the runway and get on it (AKA one of my life goals). Check!! The plane ride took a total of 20 minutes and it was remarkably smooth - suprise scale? 11!!!
For the afternoon and the next morning we explored Kathmandu. It is like a typical Indian town but MUCH cleaner. We only saw one person on the street!n To kill time we also went to see Transformers 2 in theatres (it was awesome) and I started getting excited about next year because half the movie was set in Jordan (woo!). Overall, Nepal was great. The weather was amazing (I actually didn't sweat!) and the mountains were gorgeous. Kylie and Alvin even took the plane ride to Mount Everest in the morning on Wednesday - i didn't see it as worth it unless I planned to trek to see the mountain so I slept in :) But we were also happy to get back to Delhi where the prices are not so ridiculous (for some reason everything was so expensive there in comparison). And Delhi was happy to see us too - welcoming us with a big whiff of shit. Ahhh.. home sweet home.
Monday, June 29, 2009
Well enough complaining. I got a request for a few pictures of people and the place where I am living - so here it is!
Kylie, Kylie...where do I begin. Well, she is from Canada! She came here around the same time I did and so we have been doing all of our trips together. We pretty much got along immediately - she reminds me a lot of my friends who arent afraid to say exactly what they are thinking at the time. Its pretty hilarious as well since she is basically gawked at no matter where we go as she is about 6 feet tall. She rows for her university in Canada and plays American football there as well - defense. Theres a small clue into her personality! Here she is teaching English and French (of which she is fluent in as well) at a hole-in-the-wall language place in Delhi. Oh and the Indian men just love her - I have maybe been asked if I am married once or twice - but she is probably asked daily. Since she lives right across the hall I would say I spend most of my time here with her. She is was without a doubt the person that made me start liking India in the beginning. It was difficult to connect with any of the other international interns at first with so many differences and my being shy of course - and then Kylie came along. I was like, FINALLY someone I can talk to.
Then in the middle is Allie Joe from Minnesota. Yep she has the accent and all! When I found out that there was an American girl who moved into one of the other flats (about 3 days in when I was feeling incredibly homesick) I basically made Alvin (New Zealand) take me to see her haha. Ever since then I see her fairly often (not always since she lives in the flat the farthest away in Delhi) and of course she is our 4th member of the group people refer to as the "North American girls" since we always travel together. She is adorable, so fun to be around, and somehow her hair always looks amazing (still not sure how she does that in the heat but I plan to find out). She works with hurt animals in a shelter/vet in India. She describes her job as playing with a hurt baby monkey all day. SO JEALOUS! Her greatest quality is that she loves everyone ... although her tendency to smile and be friends with everyone comes back to bite her in India since the men take it as she wants to be their bride. eek.
I know she has some problems at work because she is friends with the guys who work there who are apparently of a "lower class." The other girls that volunteer with her there are more wealthy and seem to think they are "higher class" so they tell her not to talk to the guys there at all. This really upsets her. Im glad I dont have to deal with that at my work because I would be incredibly mad if anyone told me not to talk to someone because of their darker skin color or lower caste. Thats bullshit. So she ignores them as far as I know and just continues to be friends with anyone she wants to be. So good for her.
The last guy on the right is Thyjs. Pronounced "ty-s" with an emphasis on the "s." Allie just calls him Taj though and I think I alternate between the two names. He doesn't care. He lives with Allie at the other flat so they are basically attached at the hip. He has already been here for quite some time - maybe 6 months or longer. So he's an expert on everything I am a novice at. He is always incredibly happy and easy to get along with (maybe thats why Allie and him get along so well). Unfortunately he leaves around July 17th - but he has been here for half a year!
Considering I am terrible at taking pictures, I really dont have many of anyone else - whoops! But these are the people I spend most of my time with so this will have to do for now! I am going to work on taking pictures of the office and the people I work with there as well.
Zill out.
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
The Job.
Working here has opened my eyes to the world of Indians. To start, we (when I say we I am referring to the 3 other international interns I work with) have about a 1 hour commute to work every day. One hour there, one hour back. I thought this was bad, riding a bus for 45 minutes, but two of the girls who work here ride a bus for 2 hours to get here. Seema leaves at 7 AM, after teaching a class at her home from 6-7, for a three hour bus ride here from her village. Talk about a commute!
The funny thing is that I don’t even work in Delhi either – and Delhi is a state here! I work in UP, aka Uttar Pradesh, which is the next state over. Outside of my office you can see the construction of a huge mall (named Angel Mega Mall of all horrific names). Then when you look straight ahead you usually see anywhere around 6 to 15 cows just hanging out in the heat. Then to the right there is a slum. Not a huge slum, but a slum none the less. I still wonder if the people will be kicked out of their homes once the mall opens… or maybe just told to relocate.
Now I should probably explain the foundation. Its official name is the Public Cause Research Foundation (PCRF). It is a recently opened branch of Parivartan, which is a larger NGO that works on spreading information about RTI. RTI stands for Right to Information, which was a national act passed in India in 2005. This act is actually quite impressive. As a measure that was intelligently designed by a group of bright lawyers, the act allows any Indian citizen to obtain information about well, anything. Say for instance the government is paving a road by your house. You can fill out the application and ask questions like, “How thick is the road supposed to be? Can I have a sample of the road material? Who is responsible for the road construction?” Then, the Public Information Commissioners (PIOs) are required to provide that citizen the information within a maximum of 30 days or they will personally be fined and part of their paycheck will go to the information-less citizen. Needless to say, the threat has been working.
India is full of corruption. I knew this coming here but I really had no idea how FULL OF CORRUPTION this country is. If you want your passport, you have to pay a bribe or you will never get it. Simple as that. So many government employees use their power to get more and more money. Back to the road example, a citizen may request this info because a road plan will say the road needs to be 6 cm thick, for example. Then, the builders or govt employee will negotiate to have the road be only 3 cm thick, and the government employee or officer will walk away with the unused money. Simple as that. Luckily, with RTI, citizens have been scaring these government officers into actually being accountable. Imagine that.
So PCRF, my branch of the NGO, is to plan the RTI Awards ceremony. This was the idea of one of the most famous RTI activists in India, Arvind, who is currently working in the other room. It is a foundation because he is funding the entire awards project from the money he won from an award. I also think a Bollywood star is contributing some as well. So we are going through every commissioner and appeal report that is related to RTI. Every one. I believe I heard the number 45,000 last week. It is insane. So we are evaluating every PIO to see in how many cases they supply information and in how many they deny information to the citizens. Then they will all be evaluated and winners will be chosen. There are awards for the two best Commissioners, two best PIO’s and one for the Best Citizen. This is where I come in.
After first sifting through the PIO reports for around the first 2 weeks, I now am being harnessed for my superior English skills – horray! So I am taking nominations sent in by citizens, either nominating themselves or another citizen, and I am writing their stories related to RTI. Then these stories are published in newspapers all around the country, translated into any of the 27 languages spoken here. I was shown one of my stories in a Hindi paper just yesterday (although there is no way for me to know it is mine because I cannot read Hindi). But Ill believe them for now.
As for the people and dynamic of the foundation, a lot of it has been very eye-opening. Ill begin with lunch, probably the most interesting piece to share. When we eat lunch (somewhere around 2 PM everyday) we eat all together. There are no cubicles to eat in and certainly no cafeteria. People do not pair off into their friend groups. It’s a big lunch fest together. The best part is, everyone eats off of everyone else’s plate. Now if anyone knows me, they know that I love to eat other people’s food. Indians take it to a whole new level. There is no “hey, can I try a bite?” you just eat it off their plate. Sometimes I think some people don’t bring or buy a lunch at all and just other people’s food. Once, Hannah (the girl from Poland I work with) bought two Samozas in the morning to eat for lunch (they are like a bigger friend potato dumpling). Bad description I know but you can all google it. So she brought two and we were sitting down to eat. She was eating one, and I had a bite or two of her second one, just small bites though. Then one of the guys who works here who was sitting to the left of me (Hannah was to my right) picked up the Samoza and took a bite. This was normal that he was eating her food without asking of course. But then he kept eating it and then finished the entire thing. I just stared at him shocked in my head. He ate half her lunch in 4 bites! So for those of you who would have punched him then and there, I think you can understand how eating here is VERY different.
As for the rest of the people, everyone is very nice. Everyone jokes about how Amit (one Indian guy) loves Dennis (the intern from Hong Kong). They LOVE gay jokes here. Appropriate ones of course.
Then we also have a guy, Mehtab, whose entire job is to make tea. He gets lunch as well, but mostly just tea. So he makes everyone a baby cup of chai in the morning and in the afternoon. Chai here is Indian tea with lots of milk and LOTS of sugar. That’s why I think we only drink a small tea-cup’s worth at a time. In general, labor is just so cheap here though that having a cook and people cleaning your home or even a driver is normal. One more thing about working too is that although us interns do not need to work Saturdays, everyone else works Saturdays here. The entire office. And that doesn’t mean you get overtime. Sometimes they do Sundays as well if the boss thinks we need to get more done. Indians are hard workers, that is for sure.
That pretty much sums up work. Speaking of work, I should get back to work. Update coming soon on my most recent trip to Ajmar and Pushkar, though!